The sexual needs of handicapped individuals are exactly the same as non-handicapped individuals. This is a common misconception amongst non-handicapped individuals. We must all realize this, and in doing so create and manage products that are easy to use and achieve equivalent results regardless of limitation.
By creating more easy to hold and manipulate adult sexual aids is a good start, something that, unfortunately, some companies are just starting to realize.
One of the most incredible sexual experiences is that of g-spot orgasm; where one squirts or ejaculates clear fluid.
The G-Spot on most women is located about 2" into the vagina on the anterior -- or top wall as the woman is laying on her back. -- or top wall as the woman is laying on her back. The G Spot is also called the "Urethral Sponge". The G Spot is formed by the Skene's gland - also called the Paraurethral. This area, or structure consists of small sacks, or vesicles which are in close proximity to and in fact surround the urethra. The size and number of these vesicles vary greatly among women. The vesicles are connected to and open into the urethra through what are known as the Paraurethral ducts. Stimulation of the Skene's Gland causes the lining to secrete a fluid into the vesicles where it accumulates.
Practical methods involve digital stimulation in an upward stroking motion with slight pressure. This is all fine for people with great dexterity and the ability to use their hands or their partners hands to achieve the feat. But imagine the person who has lost the motor skills to coordinate the action.
For this reason specific arched devices that can be easily held need to be used. Depending upon the specific amount of motor loss, either a handle or grip type apparatus that is arched on one end to mimic the stroking and pressure of a human hand is required. S-Shaped glass wands and closed-end arched penetration devices are ideal and are available for purchase through retailers such as CAP Crystal Adult Pleasures or other specialty stores catering to the handicapped.
